Thursday, May 30, 2013

60. Kisah Cinta Mengharukan

Cerita ini dikisahkan oleh seorang pria bernama Duel yang memiliki seorang adik perempuan bernama Rin. Suatu hari Rin mengalami kecelakaan yang menyebabkan ia koma untuk waktu yang lama.

Pada hari kedua setelah Rin mengalami kecelakaan, seorang pria seumuran Rin datang melihat Rin. Dari parasnya sudah bisa kutebak kalau namanya adalah, Zero pria yang sering Rin ceritakan kepadaku.

"Anu.. nama kamu Zero kan ?" tanyaku padanya.
"Ya.. Mengapa kakak bisa tahu namaku ?" Tanyanya heran.
"Rin sering menceritakan tentang kamu, apakah kamu kekasih Rin?"

Setelah diam sejenak ia menjawab “Bukan.. Aku sahabatnya. Jujur aku mempunyai perasaan lebih pada Rin. Tapi, sampai ia koma sekarangpun aku belum menyatakan kepadanya” Ucapnya sambil menatap kearah Rin yang terbaring koma.
"Kakak rasa Rin juga mempunyai perasaan yang sama kepadamu Zero"
"Maksud kakak ?"

"Sebaiknya kamu membaca diary yang Rin tulis ini" Ucapku sambil menyodorkan diary itu padanya.

Sejenak aku melihat Zero yang membaca diary tersebut terlihat sedih. Terang saja, soalnya aku tahu, diari itu berisi tentang perasaan Rin pada Zero selama ini.

Sejak saat itu, Zero selalu datang melihat Rin yang koma setiap hari. Sampai-sampai terkadang aku melihat dia mengerjakan tugas sekolah di ruangan Rin. Sering kuintip dari sisi pintu, Zero memegang tangan Rin sambil berbicara sendiri entah dengan siapa, tapi aku biarkan saja karena aku tahu Zero seperti itu untuk menghibur dirinya sendiri dengan cara menganggap Rin telah sadar dari komanya.

Setelah tiga bulan, akhirnya Rin sadar dari komanya. Tidak seperti biasanya, pada hari dimana Rin sadar Zero malah tidak datang. Padahal Zero tidak pernah absent mengunjungi Rin sejak hari pertama ia datang meelihat Rin. Setelah kondisi Rin membaik, aku mulai menceritakan tentang apa yang terjadi selama tiga bulan Rin koma, termasuk perasaan dan tingkah Zero selama itu. Aku senang melihat Rin mulai tersenyum ketika aku menceritakan tentang Zero.

"Kakak tahu..? Dalam kondisi enggak sadar aku selalu merasakan Zero disisiku. Kami mengobrol bersama dan ia selalu mendukung agar aku cepat sembuh" Ucap Rin padaku.

"Yahh mungkin saja apa yang dilakukan Zero selama ini telah membantu Rin agar sadar dari komanya" pikirku.

"Kata kakak,Zero selalu datang setiap hari, tapi mengapa aku tidak melihat dia sama sekali hari ini..?" Tanya Rin heran.

"Kakak juga enggak tahu, mungkin Zero ada keperluan yang enggak bisa dia tinggal. Kamu bersabar saja yahh" Jawabku. Sebenarnya aku juga merasakan ada hal yang aneh yang terjadi hari itu.

Beberapa hari telah berlalu, Rin sudah terlihat cukup sehat dan bisa berjalan. Tetapi ia terlihat sangat sedih dan kecewa karena Zero tidak datang sama sekali semenjak Rin sadar dari komanya. Akhinya siang itu aku memutuskan untuk mengajak Rin kerumah Zero untuk menemui Zero. Dirumahnya kami melihat seorang ibu yang terlihat sedang menangis. Dengan memberanikan diri kami menanyainya :

"Permisi.. apakah ini rumah Zero bu ?" tanyaku pada ibu itu

Tetapi bukannya menjawab ibu itu malah semakin menangis dan tak berapa lama kemudian seorang perempuan keluar dan mengajak kami agar sedikit menjauh dari ibu itu.

"Kamu Rin kan ..?" Tanya perempuan itu pada Rin.
"Ya kak,Zero mana ? kenapa aku enggak melihatnya ?"

Sejenak aku melihat perempuan itupun menangis dan masuk kembali kedalam rumah. Beberapa saat kemudian perempuan itu keluar kembali dan menyodorkan sebuah diari yang bertuliskan “Untuk Rin” Dihalaman depannya. Samar-samar disana aku melihat bercak merah, entah apakah itu aku juga belum tahu pada awalnya

"Beberapa hari yang lalu saat Zero pulang dari melihat Rin seperti biasanya. Zero mengalami kecelakaan yang menyebabkan pendarahan parah pada kepalanya. Tim medis tak dapat menolong banyak dan akhirnya Zero meninggal pada hari itu sambil memegang Diary ini." Ucap perempuan itu yang membuat kami sangat kaget. Kontan saja Rin yang kala itu terdiam langsung menangis sambil berteriak nama Zero. Akupun yang tak kuasa melihat Rin ikut menangis karena tidak menyangka hari itu adalah hari terakhir aku melihat Zero.

Dengan berbekal alamat dan denah dari perempuan tadi, kami mengunjungi makam Zero. Disana kami memanjatkan doa. Tetapi Rin yang kala itu masih bersedih sama sekali tidak bisa menahan rasa tangisnya. Di makam itu Rin kemudian membuaka diari yang ia dapatkan, di diari itu tertulis persaaan Zero selama tiga bulan Rin koma. Dan pada tulisan terakhir nya terdapat foto Zero dan Rin yang dibawahnya tertulis "Ya tuhan, jika nanti aku telah tiada, tolong engkau jagalah ia untuku ya Tuhan. Pertemukanlah ia dengan lelaki lain yang bisa membuatnya tersenyum dan mencintai serta menjaganya dengan ikhlas sama seperti yang aku lakukan selama ini"


tetap tongkrongin cerita berikutnya :)

Sand Of Forgiveness


A story tells that two friends were walking through the desert. During some point of the journey they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one in the face.

The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand: TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE.

They kept on walking until they found an oasis, where they decided to take a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but the friend saved him. After he recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone: TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE.

The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, “After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now, you write on a stone, why?” The other friend replied “When someone hurts us we should write it down in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it.”


LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND AND TO CARVE YOUR BENEFITS IN STONE

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

24 Things To Remember


24 Things to Always Remember. . .
and One Thing to Never Forget

your presence is a present to the world.
You’re unique and one of a kind.
Your life can be what you want it to be.
Take the days just one at a time.
Count your blessings, not your troubles.
You’ll make it through whatever comes along.
Within you are so many answers.
Understand, have courage, be strong.

Don’t put limits on yourself.
So many dreams are waiting to be realized.
Decisions are too important to leave to chance.
Reach for your peak, your goal, and your prize.

Nothing wastes more energy than worrying.
The longer one carries a problem, the heavier it gets.
Don’t take things too seriously.
Live a life of serenity, not a life of regrets.

Remember that a little love goes a long way.
Remember that a lot . . . goes forever.
Remember that friendship is a wise investment.
Life’s treasures are people . . . together.

Realize that it’s never too late.
Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way.
Have heath and hope and happiness.
Take the time to wish upon a star.

And don’t ever forget . . .
For even a day . . .
How very special you are.

Monday, May 27, 2013

Difficult to understand Girls


Girl: Do you smoke?
Boy : Yes
Girl: How many packs a day?
Boy : 3 packs
Girl: How much per pack
Boy : $10.00
Girl: And how long have you been smoking?
Boy : 15 years
Girl: So 1 pack cost $10.00 and you have 3 packs a day which puts your spending each month at $900. In one year, it would be $10,800 correct?
Boy : Correct
Girl: If in 1 year you spend $10,800 not accounting for inflation, the past 15 years puts your spending at $162,000 correct?
Boy : Correct
Girl: Do you know that if you hadn't smoked, that money could have been put in a step-up interest savings account and after accounting for compound interest for the past 15 years, you could have now bought a Ferrari?

Boy : Do you smoke?
Girl: No
Boy : Where's your Ferrari then?

Few days back, when she called me I was having food She got angry that i didn't ask her to join me..

Today when she called i was..
.
.
.
Taking bath & i asked her to join, she was
angry again..!!

Sunday, May 26, 2013

Renungan Buat Wanita


Assalamu'alaykum warohmatullohi wabarokatuh...

UNTUKMU WAHAI WANITA

Wahai wanita...
Berhati-hatilah dirimu jangan sampai syaitan memperalatmu menjadi penyebar kerusakan.jangan biarkan dirimu menjadi umpan untuk menjerumuskan laki-laki kedalam neraka.bahwasannya Rasulullah pernah melihat neraka,ternyata mayoritas penduduknya adalah wanita.

Wahai Wanita...
generasi depan adalah tanggung jawabmu,jangan engkau rusak dengan merusak dirimu,kenakan kembali jilbabmu,ketahuilah, Rabbmu adalah Rabb Yang Maha Mengetahui maslahat dirimu.Dia adalah Maha Adil yang tidak ingin mendzalimimu.

Wahai wanita...
Ketahuilah kodratmu.Allah memberimu hak sesuai dengan kewajibanmu,sesuai dengan kemampuanmu,ketahuilah,Allah memberimu jalan lebih mudah untuk masuk ke dalam syurga karena itu pantas dengan pengorbananmu.
Rasulullah pun telah memberi kabar gembira dalam sebuah hadits shahih ,
" jika seorang wanita shalat lima waktu,puasa wajib sebulannya,menjaga kemaluannya dan menaati suaminya,niscaya akan dikatakan kepadanya "masuklah engkau ke dalam surga dari pintu apapun yang engkau mau."
subhanallah...


Semoga Bermanfaat

Curhatan Hati Seorang Manusia Kepada Tuhannya


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Dulu, aku pernah sangat KAGUM pada manusia cerdas, sangat kaya, berhasil dalam karir hidup & hebat dalam dunianya... Sekarang, aku memilih untuk mengganti kriteria kekagumanku, aku kagum dengan manusia yang hebat di mata TUHAN. Sekalipun kadang penampilannya begitu biasa & bersahaja!

Dulu, aku memilih MARAH karena merasa harga diriku dijatuhkan ketika orang lain berlaku kasar kepadaku, menggunjingku dan menyakitiku dengan kalimat-kalimat sindiran. Sekarang, aku memilih untuk BERSYUKUR & BERTERIMAKASIH, karena ku yakin ada KASIH yang datang dari mereka ketika aku mampu untuk memaafkan & bersabar.
Dulu, aku memilih MENGEJAR dunia & menumpuknya sebisaku... Ternyata aku sadari kebutuhanku hanyalah makan & minum untuk hari ini & bagaimana cara membuangnya dari perutku... Sekarang, aku memilih untuk BERSYUKUR dengan apa yang ada & memikirkan bagaimana aku bisa mengisi waktuku hari ini, dengan penuh kasih & bermanfaat untuk sesama...
Dulu, aku berpikir bahwa aku bisa MEMBAHAGIAKAN orangtua, saudara & teman-temanku kalau aku berhasil dengan duniaku. Ternyata... yang membuat kebanyakan dari mereka bahagia adalah bukan itu melainkan sikap, tingkah & sapaanku kepada mereka…. Sekarang, aku memilih untuk membuat mereka bahagiadengan apa yang ada padaku...
Dulu, pusat pikiranku adalah membuat RENCANA-RENCANA dahsyat untuk duniaku...


Ternyata aku menjumpai teman & saudara-saudaraku begitu cepat menghadap kepadaNYA. Sekarang, yang menjadi pusat pikiran dan rencanaku adalah bagaimana mempersiapkan diri dan terutama hatiku agar aku selalu SIAP jika suatu saat namaku dipanggil olehNya...
Tak ada yang dapat menjamin bahwa aku dapat menikmati teriknya matahari besok.Tak ada yang bisa memberikan jaminan bhw aku masih bisa menghirup nafas esok hari... Kalau hari ini dan esok hari aku bisa hidup, itu semata-mata Anugerah Tuhan…

Touching Story of Father and Daughter


The bride kissed her father and placed some thing in his hand. Everyone in the room was wondering what was given to the father by the bride.

The father could feel the suspense in the air. All eyes were on him to declare the secret and say something.

So he announced "Ladies and Gentlemen today is the luckiest day of my life." Then he raised his hands with what his daughter gave him and continued.....

"My daughter finally, finally returned my Credit card to me."

The whole audience including the priest erupted in laughter....... ­­... all except......

the poor Groom !!=D
Daughters are life for DAD.

Hit like if you have bestest DAD inthe world. :) ♥

Saturday, May 25, 2013

Funny Misunderstanding Must Read


A young woman who was several months pregnant was sitting in a bus.

When she noticed a young man smiling at her she began feeling humiliated on account of her condition.

She changed her seat and he seemed more amused.

She moved again and then on seeing him laughing more. She filed a court case on him.

In the court the man's deference was:-

When the lady boarded the bus I couldn't help noticing she was
pregnant.

She sat under an advertisement, which read "Coming Soon- The unknown boon"..

I was even more amused when she then sat under a shaving advertisement, which read:-"William's stick did the trick"..

Then I could not control myself any longer, when on the third move she sat under an advertisement, which read:-

"Dun lop Rubber would have prevented this accident"..

The case was dismissed. The judge fell off his chair laughing

Orang yang dapat melihat betapa indah hati Anda tidak akan pernah meninggalkan Anda


Orang yang tertarik kepada Anda karena wajah cantik atau tubuh yang indah tidak akan berada di sisi Anda selamanya. Tetapi orang yang dapat melihat betapa indah hati Anda tidak akan pernah meninggalkan Anda.

8 Lies of a Mother


The story begins when the person who shared this was a child.

1) Born into a very poor family, often there was not much to eat in the house. Whenever there was some food, the Mother would give her portion of rice to the child and say ‘eat this rice son, I’m not hungry.’

2) As the child grew, the mother started using up all her spare time to go fishing in a river near the house, hoping that from the fish she would catch, she could provide a little nutrition to her child. Every time she caught two fish, she would make a fish soup and give it to her child. As the child drank the soup and ate the fish, the mother would sit beside and eat the bone from what was left. The child felt really sad seeing its mother eating just the leftover bones, so one day it gave a piece of fish to the mother, but the mother said ‘eat this fish son, I don’t like fish.’

3) As the son was growing up, the mother began working harder to fund his education. She went to a Match factory to bring home used matchboxes which she would fill with fresh matchsticks. This helped her get some money that she could use towards her son’s education. One late winter night the son woke up and saw his mother was still filling the matchboxes by candlelight. He asked her to go to sleep. ‘Go to sleep son, I’m not tired,’ she smiled.

4) When it was time for the son’s final exam, the mother accompanied him and after dawn, she waited for long hours in the sun for her son to finish the exam. When he came out and ran to his mother, she gave him a cup of tea she had brought for him. He could see his mother was covered in sweat, so he gave her the glass and asked her to drink. But she said ‘Drink son, I am not thirsty.’

5) After the death of his father, his mother had to take on the role of a single parent, working, trying to meet the expenses, battling starvation. The neighbours, who saw that the family was stuck in poverty, often advised the mother to marry again, but she refused, saying ‘I don’t need love.’

6) After he finished his studies, he got a job and asked his mother to stop working. But she continued going to the market each morning just to sell a few vegetables. She kept sending back the money that her son sent her, saying ‘I have enough money.’

7) The son got a big jump in salary and decided to bring his mother with him to America, where he was now living. But his mother didn’t want to bother the son and said ‘I’m not used to high living.’

8) In her old age, the mother got ill with cancer and had to be hospitalised. The son, who lived oceans away from her, rushed to her, who was bedridden after an operation. She tried to smile, but the son was heartbroken because she was so thin and feeble, but mother said, ‘Don’t cry son, I’m not in pain.’ And saying this, her eighth lie to her son, she died.

Friday, May 24, 2013

A smile can change everything


A smile costs nothing, but gives much,
It enriches those who receive, without making poorer those who give,
It takes but a moment, yet the memory of it may last forever.
A smile creates happiness in the home, fosters goodwill in business and is the sign of friendship.
It brings rest to the weary, cheer to the discouraged, sunshine to the sad, and is nature's best antidote to trouble.
Yet a smile cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen for it is of no value to anyone else unless it is given away, some people are too tired to give you a smile.
Give them one of yours. No one need a smile as much as those who have none to give.

Peace Of Mind ~ Buddha's Lesson


Once Buddha was walking from one town to another town with a few of his followers. This was in the initial days. While they were travelling, they happened to pass a lake. They stopped there and Buddha told one of his disciples, “I am thirsty. Do get me some water from that lake there.”

The disciple walked up to the lake. When he reached it, he noticed that some people were washing clothes in the water and, right at that moment, a bullock cart started crossing through the lake. As a result, the water became very muddy, very turbid. The disciple thought, “How can I give this muddy water to Buddha to drink!” So he came back and told Buddha, “The water in there is very muddy. I don’t think it is fit to drink.”

After about half an hour, again Buddha asked the same disciple to go back to the lake and get him some water to drink. The disciple obediently went back to the lake. This time he found that the lake had absolutely clear water in it. The mud had settled down and the water above it looked fit to be had. So he collected some water in a pot and brought it to Buddha.

Buddha looked at the water, and then he looked up at the disciple and said, “See what you did to make the water clean. You let it be … and the mud settled down on its own – and you got clear water… Your mind is also like that. When it is disturbed, just let it be. Give it a little time. It will settle down on its own. You don’t have to put in any effort to calm it down. It will happen. It is effortless.”

Thursday, May 23, 2013

An Unborn Girl


MUST READ

Mommy, I am only 8 inches long, but I have all my organs. I love the sound of your voice. Every time I hear it, I wave my arms and legs. The sound of your heart beat is my favorite lullaby.

Month Two Mommy, today I learned how to suck my thumb. If you could see me, you could definitely tell that I am a baby. I'm not big enough to survive outside my home though. It is so nice and warm in here.

Month Three You know what Mommy, I'm a girl! I hope that makes you happy. I always want you to be happy. I don't like it when you cry. You sound so sad. It makes me sad too, and I cry with you even though you can't hear me.

Month Four Mommy, my hair is starting to grow. It is very short and fine, but I will have a lot of it. I spend a lot of my time exercising. I can turn my head and curl my fingers and toes, and stretch my arms and legs. I am becoming quite good at it too.

Month Five You went to the doctor today. Mommy, he lied to you. He said that I'm not a baby. I am a baby Mommy, your baby. I think and feel. Mommy, what's abortion?

Month Six I can hear that doctor again. I don't like him. He seems cold and heartless.Something is intruding my home.The doctor called it a needle. Mommy what is it? It burns! Please make him stop! I can't get away from it! Mommy! Help me!

Month Seven Mommy, I am okay. I am in God's arms.He is holding me. He told me about abortion. Why didn't you want me Mommy?


Every abortion is just... One more heart that was stopped.

Two more eyes that will never see.

Two more hands that will never touch.

Two more legs that will never run.

One more mouth that will never speak.

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A small story of 24 year old boy


A 24 year Old boy seeing out from the Train's window

Shouted, "Dad, look the trees are going behind!".

Dad smiled and a young Couple sitting nearby, looked at the 24 year Old's Childish behavior with Pity.

Suddenly he again Exclaimed. "Dad look the clouds are running with Us!" . The couple couldn't resist and said to the old Man. "why don't you take your Son to a good Doctor?"

The Old man smiled and Said. ."I did and we are just coming from the hospital, my son was blind from birth, he just got his eyes today." ?


MORAL : Every Single Person On The Planet Has a Story :)

-Don't Judge People Before You Truly Know Them.

"If u judge people you have no time to love them" this is a famous and inspiring quote by Mother Teresa......!!

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

A Son who hated his father




A young man was getting ready to graduate college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer’s showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted.

As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation his father called him into his private study. His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautiful wrapped gift box.

Curious, but somewhat disappointed the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible. Angrily, he raised his voice at his father and said, “With all your money you give me a Bible?” and stormed out of the house, leaving the holy book.Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him.

He had not seen him since that graduation day. Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care things.

When he arrived at his father’s house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart.

He began to search his father’s important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the Bible and began to turn the pages.

As he read those words, a car key dropped from an envelope taped behind the Bible. It had a tag with the dealer’s name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words…PAID IN FULL.

How many times do we miss God’s blessings because they are not packaged as we expected?


Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Pray not only because you need something


Pray not only because you need something but because you have lot to thank god for!

Funny Interview


Interviewer: There are 50 bricks on an aeroplane.

If u drop 1 outside. How many are left?

Applicant: That’s easy, 49.

Interviewer: What are the three steps to put an elephant into a fridge?Applicant: Open the fridge.
Put the elephant in.
Close the fridge.Interviewer: What are the four steps to put a deer into the fridge?Applicant: Open the fridge.
Take the elephant out.
Put the deer in.
Close the fridge.Interviewer: It’s lion’s birthday, all animals are there except one, why?
Applicant: Because the deer is in the fridge.

Interviewer: How does an old woman cross a swamp filled with crocodiles?

Applicant: She just crosses it because the crocodiles are at the lion’s birthday.

Interviewer: Last question.
In the end the old lady still died. Why?

Applicant: Er….I guess she drowned?

Interviewer: No! She was hit by the brick fallen frm the aeroplane. You may leave now.

Monday, May 20, 2013

What Do Moms Do All Day ?


A man came home from work and found his 3 children outside, still in their pyjamas, playing in the mud, with empty food boxes and wrappers strewn around garden.

The door of his wife’s car was open, as was the front door to the house and no sign of the dog, walking in the door, he found…an even bigger mess.

A lamp had been knocked over, the throw rug was against one wall, in the front room the TV was on loudly with the cartoon channel, the family room was strewn with toys and various items of clothing.

In the kitchen, dishes filled the sink, breakfast food was spilled on the counter, the fridge door was open wide, dog food was spilled on the floor, a broken glass lay under the table, and a small pile of sand was spread by the back door.

He quickly headed up the stairs, stepping over toys and more piles of clothes, looking for his wife. He was worried she might be ill, or that something serious had happened. He was met with a small trickle of water as it made its way out the bathroom door. As he peered inside he found wet towels, scummy soap and more toys strewn over the floor. Miles of toilet paper lay in a heap and toothpaste had been smeared over the mirror and walls. As he rushed to the bedroom, he found his wife still curled up in the bed in her pyjamas, reading a novel…

She looked up at him, smiled and asked how his day went. He looked at her bewildered and asked, ‘What happened here today?’ She again smiled and answered, ‘You know every day when you come home from work and you ask me what in the world do I do all day? ”Yes,” was his incredulous reply..

She answered, ‘Well, today I didn’t do it.’

Sunday, May 19, 2013

Sharing a moment Beautiful Story


Sharing a Moment...

Few days back I went to a park nearby...

I saw a lovely couple sitting on bench,

A Sweet Girl&and Cute looking Guy...:)

Laughing, Playing with each other, Boy was teasing her, messing her hair, Girl was pinching him on his nose....

Then girl rests her head on his shoulder just like she's surrenders herself to him, then they moved away by holding each others hand...

It was a mesmerizing view to watch..

Now I know u all r thinking wats SPECIAL in dat...thats really Normal in Love...Is int it..??

SPECIAL was Both were DEAF&DUMB, They cant speak to each other.. They cant listen to each other... But They can Understand each other more than us...

We can speak, We can Listen But dont understand each other....



Sometimes its really true to say that - SILENCE SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS...:)

Obama and Michelle Restaurant story


One night President Obama and his wife Michelle decided to do something out of routine and go for a casual dinner at a restaurant that wasn’t too luxurious. When they
were seated, the owner of the restaurant asked the president’s secret service if he could please speak to the First Lady in private. They obliged and Michelle had a conversation with the owner. Following this conversation President Obama asked Michelle, “Why was he so interested in talking to you.” She mentioned that in her teenage years, he had been madly in love with her. President Obama then said, “So if you had married him, you would now be the owner of this lovely restaurant,” to which Michelle responded, “No. If I had married him, he would now be the President.”

Repost, Just Enjoy the story doesn't matter if you like Obama or not...!!

I like your eyes, Love never dies

We met in kindergarten. We were best friends. She always told me she loved my eyes. I didn’t quite know why.

I was in love with her, so of course my face lit up immensely whenever she said it.

She was beautiful, kind, and extremely funny.

We’d be talking about nothing, and she’d turn to me and whisper,

“I like your eyes.”

One day, I was playing basketball, waiting for her to drive over to my house to have a game with me.

Suddenly, I got a phone call.

It was her mom. She was in a panic.

I couldn’t quite understand what she was saying. It sounded like,

“Aaron, come quick! Kelsey, accident, Main Street! Blood. Come now!”

I had no clue what happened,

so I ran to Main Street with my basketball shorts and a tee shirt on.

I saw Kelsey’s mom helplessly crying, waiting for the ambulance to arrive.

I saw a totaled car, blood everywhere. Then I saw her, Kelsey. I went to the hospital that night, the main source of blood coming from her head. Before I could say anymore, the medics took her away. I said “Kelsey? Kelsey!” but she was unconscious. I started crying. My heart stopped as I frantically ran over to her. I went to hospital every night after that. The doctors tried getting me to leave, but I refused. In fact, I felt I It was all my fault.

I insisted her to play basketball with me. If I wouldn't have told her to come she wouldn’t be going through this.

It was already four days, and she hasn’t woken up.

On the fifth day, I saw her eyes gently open.

“Kelsey?” I called.

She wasn’t quite awake yet.

Suddenly, doctors came rushing in, telling me I had to wait outside.

I did, for a few hours.

One of the doctors finally came out saying,

“I understand that you’re Kelsey’s friend, Aaron?”

“Yes,” I whispered.

He bit his lip.

“She woke up, she’s fine,

but I’m afraid she has long term memory loss.”

“Are you serious?” I almost shouted.

“I’m afraid so.”

I didn’t meet his gaze. I couldn’t.

I wasn’t going to say anything, so he spoke again.

“You can go see her if you want,

but she doesn’t remember anything, not even her mom.”

I walked in, trembling in horror.

I saw her. She looked helpless as she slept.

I waited a few hours, until I saw her eyes opening gently again.

I expected doctors to run in, rushing me out.

Instead, she looked me straight in the eyes, and whispered,“I don’t know you, but I like your eyes.”

Saturday, May 18, 2013

It takes great courage to stand

Wings of Your Soul

It takes great courage to stand and fight for something,
 but sometimes it can take even more courage to walk away and leave things behind

The Cockroach Theory for Self Development


At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady. She started screaming out of fear. With a panic stricken face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach.

Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky.

The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but …it landed on another lady in the group.

Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama.

The waiter rushed forward to their rescue.
In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter.

The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behavior of the cockroach on his shirt.
When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant.

Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach responsible for their histrionic behavior?
If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed? He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.

It is not the cockroach, but the inability of the ladies to handle the disturbance caused by the cockroach that disturbed the ladies.

I realized that, it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or my wife that disturbs me, but it’s my inability to handle the disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me.

It’s not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me.

More than the problem, it’s my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life.


Lessons learnt from the story:
I understood, I should not react in life. I should always respond.
The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.

Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of, just and right to save a situation from going out of hands, to avoid cracks in relationship, to avoid taking decisions in anger, anxiety, stress or hurry.

Friday, May 17, 2013

Love only matters - Husband convincing wife


My husband is an Engineer by profession, ‘n I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders. Three years of courtship ‘n now, two years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it.

The reasons of me loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness. I am a sentimental woman ‘n extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship ‘n my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband, is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, ‘n the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love.

One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.

“Why?” he asked, shocked. “I am tired, there are no reasons for everything in the world!” I answered. He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times.

My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can’t even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? ‘n finally he asked me:” What can I do to change your mind?”

Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : “Here is the question, if you can answer ‘n convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let’s say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, ‘n we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?” He said :” I will give you your answer tomorrow….” My hopes just sank by listening to his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, ‘n saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes….

My dear, “I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain the reasons further..” This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading. “When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, ‘n you cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs.

You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you. You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to save my eyes to show you the way.

You always have the cramps whenever your “good friend” approaches every month, I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy. You like to stay indoors, ‘n I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes ‘n stories to cure your boredom.

You always stare at the computer, ‘n that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails,’n help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine ‘n the beautiful sand… ‘n tell you the colour of flowers, just like the color of the glow on your young face…

Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do… I could not pick that flower yet, ‘n die.. ” My tears fell on the letter, ‘n blurred the ink of his handwriting… ‘n as I continue on reading…

“Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread ‘n fresh milk…

I rush to pull open the door, ‘n saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle ‘n loaf of bread…. Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, ‘n I have decided to leave the flower alone…


That’s life, ‘n love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, ‘n one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace ‘n dullness.

Love shows up in all forms, even very small ‘n cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could be the most dull ‘n boring form.. . flowers, ‘n romantic moments are only used ‘n appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands… ‘n that’s our life… Love, not words win arguments… !

Thursday, May 16, 2013

The Miracle of Love ~ True Story


Like any good mother, when Karen found out that another baby was on the way, she did what she could to help her 3-year-old son, Michael, prepare for a new sibling.

The new baby was going be a girl, and day after day, night after night, Michael sang to his sister in Mommy’s tummy. He was building a bond of love with his little sister before he even met her.

The pregnancy progressed normally for Karen, an active member of the the Creek United Methodist Church in Morristown, Tennessee, USA.

In time, the labor pains came. Soon it was every five minutes, every three, every minute. But serious complications arose during delivery and Karen found herself in hours of labor.

Finally, after a long struggle, Michael’s little sister was born. But she was in very serious condition. With a siren howling in the night, the ambulance rushed the infant to the neonatal intensive care unit at St. Mary’s Hospital, Knoxville, Tennessee.

The days inched by. The little girl got worse. The pediatrician had to tell the parents there was very little hope. Be prepared for the worst. Karen and her husband contacted a local cemetery about a burial plot. They had fixed up a special room in their house for their new baby they found themselves having to plan for a funeral.

Michael, however, kept begging his parents to let him see his sister. “I want to sing to her,” he kept saying.

Week two in intensive care looked as if a funeral would come before the week was over. Michael kept nagging about singing to his sister, but kids are never allowed in Intensive Care.

Karen decided to take Michael whether they liked it or not. If he didn’t see his sister right then, he may never see her alive. She dressed him in an oversized scrub suit and marched him into ICU. He looked like a walking laundry basket.

The head nurse recognized him as a child and bellowed, “Get that kid out of here now. No children are allowed.”

The mother rose up strong in Karen and the usually mild-mannered lady glared steel-eyed right into the head nurse’s eyes, her lips a firm line, “He is not leaving until he sings to his sister.”

Then Karen towed Michael to his sister’s bedside. He gazed at the tiny infant losing the battle to live. After a moment, he began tossing. In the pure-hearted voice of a 3-year-old, Michael sang:

“You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy when skies are gray.”

Instantly the baby girl seemed to respond. The pulse rate began to calm down and became steady.

“Keep on singing, Michael,” encouraged Karen with tears in her eyes.

“You never know, dear, how much I love you, please don’t take my sunshine away.”

As Michael sang to his sister, the baby’s ragged, strained breathing became as smooth as a kitten’s purr. “Keep on singing, sweetheart.”

“The other night, dear, as I lay sleeping, I dreamed I held you in my arms”.

Michael’s little sister began to relax as rest, healing rest, seemed to sweep over her. “Keep singing, Michael.” Tears had now conquered the face of the bossy head nurse. Karen glowed.

“You are my sunshine, my only sunshine. Please don’t take my sunshine away…”

The next day,…the very next day…the little girl was well enough to go home.

Whats a soulmate?



Whats a soulmate?


Its like a best friend but more. Its the one person in the world who knows you better than anyone else. That someone who makes you a better person. No, actually they dont make you a better person. You do that by yourself because they inspire you. A soulmate is someone you carry with you forever. Its one person who knew you, accepted you and believed in you before anyone else did or when no one else would. And no matter what happens, you will always love them and nothing could ever change that.

A box of kisses


Some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree.

Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, “This is for you, Daddy.” He was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, but his anger flared again when he found the box was empty.

He yelled at her, “Don’t you know that when you give someone a present, there’s supposed to be something inside it?”

The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and said,”Oh, Daddy, it is not empty. I blew kisses into the box. All for you, Daddy.”

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged for her forgiveness.
It is told that the man kept that gold box by his bed for years and whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.

In a very real sense, each of us as humans have been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses from our children, friends, family and God. There is no more precious possession anyone could hold.


Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Last week my girlfriend and I were getting to bed (Funny Story)



Last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed. As our passion began to heat up she said, “I don’t feel like it. I just want you to hold me.” I said, “WHAT?! What was that?!” She said, “You’re just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man.” She responded to my puzzled look by saying, “Can’t you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?” Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.

The next day I took off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big department store. I walked around with her as she tried on several very expensive outfits. She couldn’t decide which one to take, so I told her we’d just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to go with her new clothes, so I said, “Lets get a pair for each outfit.” We went on to the j3welry counter where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings. She was so excited. I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet. I threw her for a loop when I said, “That’s fine, honey.” She was nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement.

Smiling with excited anticipation, she finally said, “I think this is all dear, let’s go to the cashier.” I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, “No baby, I don’t feel like it.” Her face went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled, “WHAT?” I said, “Honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while. You’re just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman.” Just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, “Why can’t you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?” Apparently I’m not having sex tonight either… but at least she knows I’m smarter than her.


Find someone who isn't afraid to ...


Find someone who isn't afraid to admit that they miss you. Someone who knows that you're not perfect but treats you as if you are. Someone whose biggest fear is losing you. One who gives their heart completely. Someone who says I LOVE YOU and mean it.

Last but not least find someone you wouldn't mind waking up with you in the morning seeing your wrinkles and your gray hair but still falls in love with you all over again.

Monday, May 13, 2013

Are you enjoying your coffee ?


A group of alumni, highly established in their careers, got together to visit their old university professor. Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life.

Offering his guests coffee, the professor went to the kitchen and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups – porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite – telling them to help themselves to the coffee.

When all the students had a cup of coffee in hand, the professor said:

If you noticed, all the nice looking expensive cups were taken up, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress.

Be assured that the cup itself adds no quality to the coffee. In most cases it is just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink.

What all of you really wanted was coffee, not the cup, but you consciously went for the best cups. And then you began eyeing each other’s cups.

Now consider this:
Life is the coffee; the jobs, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain Life, and the type of cup we have does not define, nor change the quality of Life we live. Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee God has provided us.

God brews the coffee, not the cups. Enjoy your coffee!


Moral of the story : The happiest people don’t have the best of everything.They just make the best of everything.

Live simply. Love generously.
Care deeply. Speak kindly.
Leave the rest to GOD

A story of two pebbles


Many years ago a farmer in London had the misfortune to owe a huge sum to a money lender.The Moneylender, who was old and ugly, fancied the farmer's beautiful daughter. So he proposed a bargain.

He said he would forget the farmer's debt if he could marry his daughter.
Both the farmer and his daughter were horrified by the proposal. So the cunning money-lender suggested that they let providence decide the
matter.

He told them that he would put a black pebble and a white pebble into an
empty money bag. Then the girl would have to pick one pebble from the
bag.

If she picked the black pebble, she would become his wife and her father's debt would be forgiven.
If she picked the white pebble she need not marry him and her father's debt would still be forgiven.
But if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be thrown into jail.

They were standing on a pebble strewn path in the farmer's field. As they talked, the moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles. As he picked them up, the sharp-eyed girl noticed that he had picked up two black pebbles and put them into the bag.

He, then, asked the girl to pick a pebble from the bag.

Now imagine that you were standing in the field. What would you have
done if you were the girl? If you had to advise her, what would you have
told her?

Careful analysis would produce three possibilities:

The girl should refuse to take a pebble.
The girl should show that there were two black pebbles in the bag and expose the money-lender as a cheat.
The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice herself in order to save her father from his debt and imprisonment.

Take a moment to ponder over the story. The above story is used with the hope that it will make us appreciate the difference between lateral and logical thinking.

The girl's dilemma cannot be solved with traditional logical thinking.
Think of the consequences if she chooses.

The above logical answers.
What would you recommend to the girl to do?

Well, here is what she did:

The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a pebble. Without looking at it, she fumbled and let it fall onto the pebble-strewn path where it immediately became lost among all the other pebbles.
"Oh, how clumsy of me," she said. "But never mind, if you look into the bag for the one that is left, you will be able to tell which pebble I picked."

Since the remaining pebble is black, it must be assumed that she had picked the white one. And since the money-lender dared not admit his dishonesty, the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation into an extremely advantageous one.


MORAL OF THE STORY:Most complex problems do have a solution. It is only that we don't attempt to think.

Every woman deserves a man


Every woman deserves a man

Every woman deserves a man who calls her baby, kisses her like he means it, holds her like he never wants to let her go, doesn’t cheat or lie, wipes her tears when she cries, doesn’t make her jealous of other women, instead makes other women jealous of her, is not scared to let his friends know how he really feels about her, and lets her know how much he really loves her.

Advice From A Tree

Advice From A Tree

  • Stand tall and proud
  • Go out on a limb
  • Remember your roots
  • Drink plenty of water
  • Be content with your natural beauty
  • Enjoy the view

Sunday, May 12, 2013

Helpless Love


Once upon a time all feelings and emotions went to a coastal island for a vacation. According to their nature, each was having a good time. Suddenly, a warning of an impending storm was announced and everyone was advised to evacuate the island.

The announcement caused sudden panic. All rushed to their boats. Even damaged boats were quickly repaired and commissioned for duty.

Yet, Love did not wish to flee quickly. There was so much to do. But as the clouds darkened, Love realised it was time to leave. Alas, there were no boats to spare. Love looked around with hope.

Just then Prosperity passed by in a luxurious boat. Love shouted, “Prosperity, could you please take me in your boat?”

“No,” replied Prosperity, “my boat is full of precious possessions, gold and silver. There is no place for you.”

A little later Vanity came by in a beautiful boat. Again Love shouted, “Could you help me, Vanity? I am stranded and need a lift. Please take me with you.”

Vanity responded haughtily, “No, I cannot take you with me. My boat will get soiled with your muddy feet.”

Sorrow passed by after some time. Again, Love asked for help. But it was to no avail. “No, I cannot take you with me. I am so sad. I want to be by myself.”

When Happiness passed by a few minutes later, Love again called for help. But Happiness was so happy that it did not look around, hardly concerned about anyone.

Love was growing restless and dejected. Just then somebody called out, “Come Love, I will take you with me.” Love did not know who was being so magnanimous, but jumped on to the boat, greatly relieved that she would reach a safe place.

On getting off the boat, Love met Knowledge. Puzzled, Love inquired, “Knowledge, do you know who so generously gave me a lift just when no one else wished to help?”

Knowledge smiled, “Oh, that was Time.”

“And why would Time stop to pick me and take me to safety?” Love wondered.

Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and replied, “Because only Time knows your true greatness and what you are capable of. Only Love can bring peace and great happiness in this world.”


“The important message is that when we are prosperous, we overlook love. When we feel important, we forget love. Even in happiness and sorrow we forget love. Only with time do we realize the importance of love. Why wait that long? Why not make love a part of your life today?”

Bukanlah Kesulitan Yang Membuat Kita TAKUT, Tapi Ketakutanlah Yang Membuat Kita SULIT



Bukanlah Kesulitan Yang Membuat Kita TAKUT, Tapi Ketakutanlah Yang Membuat Kita SULIT, quote


Bukanlah Kesulitan Yang Membuat Kita TAKUT, Tapi Ketakutanlah Yang Membuat Kita SULIT.

Karena Itu Jangan Pernah Mencoba Untuk Menyerah Dan Jangan Pernah Menyerah Untuk Mencoba.

Maka Janganlah Katakan Pada ALLAH "Aku Punya Masalah",

Namun Katakanlah Pada Masalah "Aku Punya ALLAH Yang Maha SegalaNYA".

Love isn't practical


Love isn't practical.


It isn't meant to be easy. It doesn't appear on command. It doesnt let you fall for whomever you'd like. It surfaces neither at the most opportune moment nor in the most convenient. It'll pair you with someone you might never have expected. It'll put you face to face with endless obstacles. But in the end, none of that will matter because it's how you overcome its obstacles that will define your love. It may not be practical but love is ultimately the best thing that will ever happen to you.